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Tears, anger, confusion & lack of connection...

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Overview of NVC

0:24

The 3 horsemen of the bad communication apocalypse

2:36

(1) Observe without evaluating

4:49

Exercise 1: observation or evaluation?

11:29

The pipe analogy

15:00

(2) Identify & express feelings

15:59

Exercise 2: feeling or not?

20:04

How to express your feelings better

23:10

(3) Taking responsibility in your speech

25:51

How you become a people pleaser

27:07

The 3 stages of relationships

29:30

Exercise 3: responsibility taken or not?

31:23

The easiest way to adopt responsibility for your emotions

34:23

How to never take anything personally again

35:20

How to deal with negative messages

38:10

(4) Anger is a way of tricking yourself

38:34

(5) The 5 steps of solving conflict

41:22

(6) Connect feelings to needs

44:05

(7) Make specific requests

47:54

Exercise 4: specific & positive request or not?

54:19

(8) How to receive others empathically

57:33

(9) NVC with yourself

1:07:32

Outro rizz

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